“The best career advice I ever had”

Half of all graduates are women, yet when it comes to senior management positions, men are leading the way. And that's despite the fact that female-led companies are less likely to fail and they make fewer redundancies when the going gets tough. Clearly, more of us should be climbing the ladder - and hopefully the following advice will give you a bit of a leg up. It certainly helped these women!

"Preparation is everything. Don't let other people put you off if you think you have a good idea, but make sure you research it as thoroughly as you can. Know your numbers and always go into meetings with all the information - particularly in this climate, you have to wow people."
Thea Green, 34, founder of Nails Inc, which operates in over 55 locations around the country.

"Model yourself on the person you aspire to be. I've always read a lot, attended talks and tried to learn from people who've gone before me, because all the challenges I've faced have been overcome by others. And don't be afraid of rejection. I was once listening to a talk by Simon Woodroffe, the founder of YO! Sushi, who said it takes ten 'nos' to get a 'yes'."
Jo Cameron, 40, founder of motivational coaching agency Jo Cameron's High Performance Academy.

"Always strive for more. Leonard Lauder [chairman of Estee Lauder] once told me: 'Just when you're fed up of hearing something, someone else is hearing it for the first time.' I took that to mean you should never rest on your laurels. Also, you have to learn the rules in order to challenge or break them. If you have an innovative idea, find a way to make it palatable to those in charge. That's the way to get noticed and progress."
Michelle Feeney, 46, CEO of St Tropez, has overseen a reported 33% increase in sales to £60million in 2009.

"Put your eggs in one basket - and guard it with your life. That advice came from a businessman friend of mine, at a time when my husband and I were deciding whether to sell our two homes so we could invest heavily in our company. He argued that if you're passionate and committed, you should back your dream. Now, people ask if I have a house and I say, 'No, but I have a factory!'"
Camilla Stephens, 40, co-founder of Higgidy, which makes handmade pies and quiches. Her company now employs 134 people and has annual sales of £10million.


4 Scary Talks To Have With Your Boss

"It's important to know how to initiate tough talks with your manager," says career coach Suzanne Doyle-Morris - a new study shows 61% of us delay that crucial moment for up to five days. "You have to stand-up for yourself in the workplace - and you could even bag yourself a promotion."


The chat "I'm overwhelmed"
The time to talk When you start to feel overstretched, but before you're found crying in the loos.
What to say "Do you have a few minutes to discuss my current workload and priorities?"
Your strategy "Show your boss a clear, printed (not scrawled) list of your current workload - and explain that you're keen to keep doing a good job and not let anybody down," says Doyle-Morris. "Ask for clear deadlines and help with prioritizing your tasks. Then say you've found this meeting helpful and ask what resources are available going forward. Don't assume your boss wants to make your life hell - she probably just hasn't realized how much you have on your plate."


The chat "I'm leaving"

The time to talk When you have another job offer in writing.

What to say "I've decided to leave the company"

Your strategy "Say it's been a hard decision - even if you're desperate to leave," says Clare Whitmell, founder of jobmarketsuccess.com. "Focus on the positive: detail what you've learned at the company and what you've added to the team. Be clear about when you are leaving and say you are committed to the company until that time. Bring a resignation letter, but don't hand it over until the end of the conversation, in case your employer counter-offers."


The chat "I want a promotion/pay rise"

The time to talk Following a dazzling appraisal or when a client compliments your work

What to say (smiling) I think now would be a good time to talk about my salary.

Your strategy "Don't use phrases like 'I want', 'I need' or 'I deserve'," says Doyle-Morris. "This is about presenting a business case. Quantify the results you have achieved: show how much your team has saved or earned the company, which projects went well - and how this was down to you. Tell your boss what salary you think is fair (suggest twice the increase you want) and thank them for considering your request."


The chat "I'm pregnant"

The time to talk When you're just beginning to show, but before people are gossiping.

What to say Just come straight out with it!

Your strategy "Remember, this isn't like telling the friends news," says Whitmell. "You're sharing it because you're boss needs to know so that she can make arrangements for your time off. Accept your manager's congratulations graciously, but tone down your excitement and be clear you remain committed to the company. For more information on your maternity rights in the workplace, visit direct.gov.uk

Is your boss still not listening to you? Check out adviceguide.org.uk/money/employment for more advice.


Best Perfumes for Men in summer 2011

Smelling good is very important for everyone. It makes person self-confident and attract other people towards you. Best perfumes for men in summer 2011 are Davidoff hot Water, Ferrari Black and Obsession by Calvin Klein.
Smelling good is every human being’s vital need. Off course you don’t want to repel people away from you due to bad odor especially during the summer season. A good perfume adds to the self-confidence in ones personality. It is a matter of great confusion to find a good fragrance that suits our personality from a wide variety of branded perfumes for men. Therefore, we have come up with the most popular and best perfumes for men in summer 2011.
Davidoff Hot Water:
Davidoff has been a hot favorite in branded perfumes for men as well as women for more than five years through Davidoff Cool Water fragrance. But for summer 2011, the perfume that takes part in the list of best perfumes for men in summer 2011 is Davidoff Hot Water. This perfume has been made from a unique shrub that grown in the Indo Malayan region. The interesting fact about this perfume is that it regulates actively with the sweating process of a human body due to the unique features of the shrub. Moreover, this is one of those branded perfumes for men that have an extremely masculine feel to them with a crisp aroma.
Ferrari Black:
This is one of those branded perfumes for men which are ideal for those who are in immense love with Ferrari. Yes! It is a product from the Ferrari house and it falls in that category of best perfumes for men that have a cool and light fragrance. In branded perfumes for men, Ferrari Black is great for those who like fresh, fruity and mild scents rather than very crisp and strong ones for summer season. Amongst the branded perfumes for men, this one surely has a very soothing effect and it is highly recommended for day wear.
Obsession by Calvin Klein:
Calvin Klein has been a popular house of perfumes for women. Today, it has also become a hot favorite in branded perfumes for men. The unique features associated with Calvin Klein perfumes diversify them from other best perfumes for men available in the market. The must have for summer 2011 in branded perfumes for men from Calvin Klein is Obsession. It seems like this perfume has got some magical powers in itself that overpowers the senses of people with its diving fragrance. Amongst the branded perfumes for men, Obsession is highly recommended because its fragrance last for 24 hours and just after you have applied it, it starts to give out its fragrance after almost an hour as it gets penetrated into the body.
So try out these top three branded perfumes for men for summer 2011 really soon in order to mesmerize the people around you with these enchanting fragrances. Once you get hold of these, you will certainly say it yourself that they are the best perfumes for men in summer 2011. Also, these branded perfumes for men are an ideal gift for your dad, brother or a close friend. So spark up your masculinity with these latest fragrances of top three best perfumes for men.


Apple Cider Vinegar - your beauty kit to flawless skin

Every girl dreams of flawless skin, ‘a universal truth’ and to live that dream you spend thousands of rupees to get various chemical-laden products from the market, but have you ever thought a bottle of Apple Cider Vinegar placed in your kitchen cabinet, that your mom uses to make delicious salads is actually a little beauty kit to flawless skin!

And what’s even more amazing is that it’s cheap and totally natural! Apple cider vinegar is made by crushing fresh apples and allowing them to ferment. The best quality apple cider vinegar is made with organic apples, allowed to mature in wooden barrels to make vinegar. The best brand is Braggs Natural Organic Apple Cider Vinegar, which is not available in Pakistan; the most commonly available in Pakistan is American Garden Apple Cider Vinegar, which is the next best and can do wonders on your skin.

Apple cider vinegar contains natural enzymes, vitamins and minerals and is rich in antioxidants.   It contains Vitamins A, B and C, beta carotene, bioflavonoid, calcium, magnesium, potassium, phosphorus, copper, iron, sulfur, iron, fluorine, silicon, boron and pectin.  It naturally balances the pH balance of the skin and the entire body.

This little beauty secret not only cures acne; mild and severe, but also improves skin tone, blood circulation, oxygen delivery, maintains elasticity, purifies and revives. It’s the best anti angling natural ingredient that can make you look years younger. Plus it is a natural anti-fungal and an antiseptic.

Apple Cider Vinegar can be taken internally and externally for best results. For internal use, a teaspoon of Apple Cider vinegar diluted in a glass of water can be taken first thing in the morning and in the evening before meal. It will not only cleanse your system but will also boost your metabolism reaction and immune system for effective working and healthy body.

For external use, mix Apple Cider Vinegar in water in equal quantities and apply it on face directly with a cotton ball as a toner and let it dry naturally. You can use it 1-3 times a day or you can even use it before sleeping and rinse in the morning.

And I bet, it will not disappoint you, within a week or two, your skin will look tighter, younger, soft, dewy and above all acne and blemish free. So go grab this little beauty kit hidden in the darkest corner of your kitchen and place it on your dressing table for flawless skin.

Know what your shoes say about you!

The shoes we wear tell our stories in thousand different ways, in each step we take, in each move we make, those little creations, with which we adorn our delicate feet whisper our personality in the click click of their sound. Read on to know what those lovely pairs of shoes you adore so much tell about you.
High Heels
You certainly feel like a model, when you walk with those sexy high heels while they make your calf muscles more firm and toned and push your buttocks to resemble a firm peach with an erotically charged line. High heels are laden with power, sexuality, defiance and mystery, the click click sound in its every step whispers ‘seduction’.
To wear high heels, you need a huge amount of confidence and power to do them justice. High Heels go best with denim, trousers, skirts and culottes for a perfectly chic and modern look. However, you can also combine them with traditional frocks to give yourself a feminine and alluring look. Don’t wear high heels if you feel you can’t carry them with the immense confidence they demand.
Khussa and Kaula Pori Chappal
As the name suggests, this section of shoes is totally traditional and looks best with traditional long frocks and chori dars. Where high heels represent boldness and sex, Khussa is its opposite because of its extremely delicate and demure appeal. Usually Khussa wearing girls are termed as ‘simple girls’ demure and innocent, who when walk with those Khussa adorned feet whispers elegance and grace in every step. Khussa is the best suitable for traditional ceremonies of Mehndi and Mayon. Plus they also add to the charm of traditional dresses like frocks and choridars and shalwar kameez with their timeless appeal.
Flat Sandals
Flat Sandals, which are so ‘in’ these days speaks of feminine comfort, which is a fusion of modern and tradition both. Flat Sandals can work their magic with any outfit whether it is Shalwar Kameez or trendy denim, Flat sandals can go with anything and everything. Flat sandals are casual yet trendy, cool yet sexy and above all they are extremely comfortable in an extremely feminine way.  They can be as bold as heels in the form of gladiators and they can be as delicate as Khussa.
Now choose your shoes, according to your personality and flaunt them freely in the perfect way! 

Bol’s Music Failed to Attract Masses

Everyone remembers Shoaib Mansoor’s rocking music for movie Khuda Ke Liye but this time the music he released for upcoming movie Bol has unfortunately failed to attract masses.

Shoaib Mansoor’s music for Bol could not gain much attention, not even one song from the movie is synonymous to his benchmark music for “Bandeya” in Khuda Ke Liye. The music sounds and tracks of Bol have fallen boring and unoriginal for listeners despite being sung by Pakistan’s pop icon like Hadiqa Kiani, Ahmed Jahanzeb, Sajjad Ali, Shuja Haider, Atif Aslam and Shabnam Majeed. Rather it is conflicting to Shoaib Mansoor’s own music quality.
Mahira Khan, Iman Ali and Humaima Abassi are the highlights of movie Bol.


Rich Chocolate Fudge Brownies

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup butter
  • 4 (1 ounce) squares unsweetened chocolate
  • 2 cups white sugar
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 2 cups chopped walnuts
  • Twix

Method:

  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Grease a 9x13 inch baking pan.
  2. In 3-quart saucepan over very low heat, melt butter or margarine and chocolate, stirring the mixture constantly. Remove from heat, and stir the sugar into the chocolate. Allow the mixture to cool slightly. Beat in the eggs one at a time, mixing well after each, then stir in the vanilla.
  3. Combine the flour and salt; stir into the chocolate mixture. Fold in the walnuts and also add pieces of Twix chocolate for more chocolaty feeling. Spread the batter evenly into the prepared pan.
  4. Bake in oven 30 to 35 minutes. Brownies are done when toothpick inserted into center come out clean. Cool in pan on wire rack.
  5. Serve hot with Vanilla scoop and get indulged in rich chocolicious pleasure!

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